Focus your energy on yourself. We often scatter our energies by giving our attention to what is perceived as going “wrong” around us. You know the game….the person who isn’t treating you the way you would like, the situations that are not playing out how you think is best, the challenges that are robbing you of your happiness. This fractured approach will only serve to bring you more unhappiness and continue to wall you off from what you truly desire.
How can you support your inner fierceness? How can you be more kind to yourself and others? Tap into your inner badass and refuse to shut down any further. Open wider to who you are. Let the world see so you can attract those that vibe with you instead of those that have their own walls up as a defense. Your relationships are supposed to be about connection and deepness, not the hard work of chipping away at walls you didn’t build. There exists a place of ease and happiness when you find it in yourself first. Then live from that place so that others may recognize who you are and what you want. They will choose to walk beside you or not. Either is ok, because you are ok with you.