Relationships can be an interesting beast. I have always said this because after watching myself and others go through love, breakups and then love again, relationships can seem like a daunting experience. I know that for me personally, love set my world on fire and no form of water or sand was able to tame the flames in my heart. It burned hard and unapologetically.
I call this Rock Star Love.
The heart loves when it loves and there is nothing we can do, but surrender to it. I know you must be thinking, there is no way in hell that surrender is the only thing to do. Honestly, yes it is. You can certainly try other methods, but they will not work. Resisting or pretending not to love someone is like trying to breathe underwater. You see, there are people we will come across in our lives that have a soul job to make us feel things so majestic it will split our hearts open wide. It will challenge us to our core, while at the same time making us feel a love like no other.
It will light the flame inside us so bright that we will be forever changed.
Now, imagine losing that kind of love. Kind of sucks, right? YES! It truly does suck. However, stay with me, and I will explain how this is actually a blessing. Finding Rock Star Love will wake up all those dormant feelings. Now, you must be thinking I’m nuts! Who wants to be overwhelmed with immense feelings? In our society, feelings are considered a taboo. We are taught to ignore what we know by our own experiences. We are shown to stuff our feelings or to get over them which is basically waging a self-destructive war over our own nature. Women are considered emotional and men are called weak for talking about how they feel. We are reared to be embarrassed by grand emotions and groomed to put on a false face to the outside world. Rock Star Love is so big it causes us to bust through this unrealistic paradigm we have been brought up in.
We either change or implode.
So when that ROCK STAR Love shows up, your head is spinning and all kinds of feelings are running through you, what should you do? Run the other direction? NO! The farther away you run the bigger the monster gets. Your problems will snowball giving you exactly what you don’t want. Feeling fear is natural and it’s an indication you are right on the edge of the change you desire. Take the fear, muster whatever courage you can and run right to it. The ROCK STAR Love will give you the best gift EVER. These new, intense feelings will help you navigate love in a whole new way. You will learn what you need, desire, crave and dream for in the most honest way, and never again will you settle for mediocre love. Too many times we settle, but that is because either we ran from that ROCK STAR Love or it just hasn’t come into our lives yet. Take that ROCK STAR Love and use it for all it’s worth. You will forever have feelings for that person and that’s ok. Whenever you are thinking about them, pining over them and missing them, know that is the ROCK STAR Love saying hello and asking you to remember what you truly want to create in love.