Let me start with this statement to be clear: I am a woman so this isn’t some sexist man writing about a topic that just might anger some of you. I want to talk about why some women find it appropriate to hold on to things like how they feel or what they are truly thinking then turn around and bring it up months or years later. They do this as if to justify their actions or lack thereof, or even better to use it as a weapon when you are pissed about something else. No wonder most men are clueless as to what women might want or need. Clearly some women have no idea what they want either. It is important to bring up this point because this behavior has been going on far too long. In a society where women have fought to be equal and have wanted their men to support and understand them, why on earth would you ever behavior in that manner? Men are very black and white and some women like to dwell in the shade of grey. Women, if your partner did this to you how would you feel? What if one evening he comes home after a long day at work and you notice he has an attitude. You ask him what is wrong. He gives you a look that clearly says, “how dare you not know what is wrong with me”. Still he says nothing for a while and when he does finally start to speak the first words out of his mouth are remember 6-7 months ago when you did/said/didn’t remember…, this list is endless. Listen up ladies. Enough with the game play. If you want your man to be honest with you then stop being so damn crazy and know exactly what you want/feel/need before you start making it that poor man’s problem. Deal with your issues in REAL TIME. I guarantee your man will appreciate it. This uncalled for behavior only rips at the very fabric of your relationship. Be honest with yourself and your partner. Trust me, at the end of the day you will both win. The stress level in your relationship will decrease; the connection between the both of you will increase. I don’t know about you but that sounds far better than the game play.