Lately, some interesting things have ended up at my doorstep. The most interesting to me has been a perception. I have heard everything from “I can’t change things.” to “I can’t ignore how I feel” and also a downright elaborate story that is not factual if one truly takes an honest look. This belief that we have zero control in our life is mind boggling to me. We can change anything in our lives for we are the creators of it. What we cannot do is control how others might interpret our lives. We also have no control over other people’s behaviors. Clear boundaries are a big factor here and has been a struggle for many folks. Listen, if you change your behavior and have clear boundaries you can trust and believe that change will occur. The people/situations around you will have to adjust to staying in your new found vibration or the people/situations will fade away. I believe that it is the loss or the unknown of the outcome that keeps us in this dance.
As a close friend said to me not too long ago: Take the situation, person, or feeling and ask yourself “Does this work for my highest good?” If somewhere in there a “NO” is present then you need to back up and look closer. Emotions are at play here and we all know how tricky that can be. In truth, emotions can only work against you if you let them! Alternatively, you can choose to claim your power (which is your birthright) and choose change. No one wants to lose a lover or a friend or whatever the situation is for you but is it worth the dimming of your own light?