We have heard so many times relationships are hard or relationships take work. What if I told you that truly, they are not. What is hard is our inability to stop seeing ourselves in our people; our inability to stop dumping our insecurities/fears/behaviors/past experiences on them. Why do you think you get hurt in a relationship? Is it truly because the other person/people did you wrong? I dare you to look honestly. Relationships shouldn’t be hard and take work if you are both 100% authentic, honest and fully invested in equal growth within it. The minute either of you starts imposing your own issues that is when it take a turn to blame, bitterness, and discontent. And that, my dear friends, is not even close to the definition of relationship. I am not talking only of the romantic type but about all the relationships we have with our family, friends, co-workers. Your life is supposed to feel good to you. The relationships we build along our journey of life are as amazing as we want them to be so take the work out of a relationship and be open to experience the best adventure ever…LOVE!