This blog is going to be about the men. Do not worry guys; it’s not going to be about man bashing. You guys are not given nearly enough credit for braving the psychosis of a woman. I know that you are brought up to provide, protect, lead and be the problem solvers. In this day and age, these tasks have been taken over by women leaving you in a place of uncertainty. At times, women are asking men, albeit indirectly, to take the role of caregiver, task master and be emotionally available without ever addressing the fact that you are not equipped for it yet. I use the word “YET” because I have seen men do their best to please their women without losing their masculine quality. Men, you are always going to be men! There is a primal instinct about you and it is similar to the women, believe it or not. Both men and women ultimately want the same thing and that is to be appreciated. No one gave you the handbook on the do’s and don’ts of life. Yet here you are building your home, loving your partner, and providing for your family. The simple truth is, you guys are the strong hold of a woman. You are the ying to her yang. I am all about women being powerful, leaders and providers just not at a cost to the man. Women didn’t like it when it was done to them so it’s time to break away from that and remember that we are truly all equal. Men you are a gift, a blessing and any woman that doesn’t see that still needs to heal from something beyond your control. I know there are “BOYS” out there that have a lot to learn and some women have been hurt by them in unspeakable ways. That does not mean they are all the same. Real men honor their women. Real men empower their women. Real men stand proud at her success. I have had the pleasure of meeting some amazing men and it’s because of these men that I write this blog. I wanted you to know that you are appreciated, loved and honored. Keep being brilliant and don’t ever let a “Girl” take away your light. A women will come along soon enough.